The Purple Toewah; What Is Love? Natural and human love 3

 

    So what is " Human nature "? A friend told me once that human nature is the thing that 

distinguishes us from the animals I guess he made it real simple for me to understand 

because it is much more than that. This a definition for human nature.

Human nature. Human nature refers to the distinguishing characteristics, including ways of thinking, feeling and acting, that humans tend to have naturally, independently of the influence of culture.

        This subject is so big we have developed psychologist to, Finding healthy alternative ways of thinking and living life, to implement positive habits and assisting clients to improve and enjoy their relationships and provide psychological/behavioral interventions for those who are experiencing psychological disorders, including anxiety, depression, anger, addictions, PTSD, ADHD or family problems.

       while Psychiatrist provide for us The medical training of psychiatrists qualifies them for administering somatic therapies such electro-convulsive therapy and psychotropic medication. While not typically trained in, some psychiatrists will do therapy, also they Meet with clients for approximately 5 - 15 minutes and prescribe medications. A small percentage of psychiatrists provide psychotherapy.

    Now when you just apply these understandings just to the " Emotion", of love imagine the power of motivation love has upon each and everyone of us. especially our interactions in family circles, friends and relationship's, and please don't forget perception. Because the way a person is taught to perceive and learn will determine the very character of that person.

    So how do you no when you love someone or is it infatuation or just plain lust?

That's can be a tough question. You may start at her hair, then her face or skin tone, maybe you check out her body. Nice booty and thigh's. when she notices you does send you signals that she is interested or just blows you off, is she interested in the things you say. How does your body react to her? does the guy become aroused, is she arouse? 

    This just how I feel. Love is all that but more. Are you willing to be patient to get to know her and establish a relationship if she wants to wait? Do you miss the time you are apart and think of her to the point of distraction? when your together do  you feel like nothing else in the world matters but the two of you together? how about when you make love it like a pleasurer from another place of existence? Do you want to spend the rest of your life with her? This is the Big one, would you die for her? To me this is love, real love, no imitations. This is rare and precious as gold itself.

      Tis better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all.

                                     Quotes Alfred Lord Tennyson

        Definition of lust 

1: usually intense or unbridled sexual desire : LASCIVIOUSNESS

He was motivated more by lust than by love.

2a: an intense longing : CRAVING

a lust to succeed

b: ENTHUSIASM, EAGERNESS

admired his lust for life

a: PLEASURE, DELIGHT

b: personal inclination : WISH

: to have an intense desire or need : CRAVE

specifically : to have a sexual urge

 

    Lust is not love but love may share the same attributes of lust. It take wisdom and

understanding of the individual and what they want in their life and for their future to know the difference. just to operate in with lust only might be ok for a person without any goal in life and few morals but eventually most want someone just to love them alone and not share the intimacies between them with another person.

lust alone eventually can lead to troubled mental states as mentioned in the beginning. Lust can be very deceiving.

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    This such a Big topic I could and all kind of topics to this love question but I am just sticking to what I can barely fathom myself. Relationships are complex and complicated, most that last take time and patience to develop into something meaningful. But I can give you men a tip I figured out a long time ago from watching Fred Flintstone. A man will never be able to figure out a woman because as soon as he does she will change everything around. In other words, "Man know thyself first'. Good Luck...